Time to spice things up !
GASP and I will be 15 years married next week, so, in my opinion ( the only one which counts, of course) we could do with spicing things up a bit. GASP is a man for routine, content with what is familiar and happy out with a simple life, with no need for surprises or excitement.He's happy with repeating the same thing every week but I, however, am slightly more demanding ( understatement !). I bore easily, love trying new things and routine does not excite me. I therefore suggested to GASP that we needed to take a look at what we get up to together late in the evening. We have reached a comfortable routine, which I have enjoyed for the past few years and it has satisfied both of us, but I need more. I need to try something new. GASP suggested things were fine jut the way they were because HE was perfectly happy with the state of play, but I protested !!
I needed a little frizzon of excitement, something to look forward to, something to do together, which we would both want more of and that we could commit to. I suggested we start every night this week while I am on holidays from work, because we are in our own familiar environment. GASP , a little jaded, suggested we should try alternate nights but I insisted if we were going to get the hang of this we needed to go for it, regardless of the consequences. GASP looked decidedly sceptical but I advised him I would do some research online and would come back to him. So, I did a bit of googling...wow there is some range of choices out there ! Things I had never heard of, some of which looked quite frankly daunting but, in the spirit of a true researcher, I persevered and learned alot !
I knew there were some things GASP would never try...he's just not into the stranger side of things. But, I think I've found it...something to satisfy both of us...his need for role play ,machismo and brutality and my need for bare flesh, molten stares and manliness ....we're starting with Peaky Blinders...our first box set commitment. We are ready !
I love you GASP !
I needed a little frizzon of excitement, something to look forward to, something to do together, which we would both want more of and that we could commit to. I suggested we start every night this week while I am on holidays from work, because we are in our own familiar environment. GASP , a little jaded, suggested we should try alternate nights but I insisted if we were going to get the hang of this we needed to go for it, regardless of the consequences. GASP looked decidedly sceptical but I advised him I would do some research online and would come back to him. So, I did a bit of googling...wow there is some range of choices out there ! Things I had never heard of, some of which looked quite frankly daunting but, in the spirit of a true researcher, I persevered and learned alot !
I knew there were some things GASP would never try...he's just not into the stranger side of things. But, I think I've found it...something to satisfy both of us...his need for role play ,machismo and brutality and my need for bare flesh, molten stares and manliness ....we're starting with Peaky Blinders...our first box set commitment. We are ready !
I love you GASP !
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